our environment but also let the children now more shy, because modern life increasingly need face-to-face contact, experts believe that the era of the network used to e-mail, computer games, bank automatic teller machines and other automation equipment, means that humans have lost the social skills of danger.
"those who dare not expressing human live entirely in the eyes of others," "everyone should appreciate me, if I get one unhappy, that I'm too useless." This is what they set for your requirements. They are too high for the requirements of self, they really fear is actually from their own judgment.
some people will be shy to cannot participate in the party, or dare not and people meet for dinner. Some people on the other end of the telephone line strangers speak, or dare not to the store to return, because do not know how to deal with the clerk. Some people are afraid of making eye contact with others.
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Yang Li will be held in this school Christmas party give a poetry reading, after determining the things he had not slept a peaceful sleep, she even want to ask for a sick leave, escape the bad night. This little girl is very shy from the sensible. Meet friends and relatives of the occasion, she is most afraid of being pushed to adults with unfamiliar children play together; at school, she always afraid to give the teacher call to name. When the interview when weak legs, fewer people party especially let her be very upset. Even if you never had this kind of timidity to lose experience, probably also know this friend. The famous movie star Tony Leung has self-supporting "too shy to painful stage". "No longer shy, overcome shyness and social catatonia" author Walker to shyness: "so defined extreme fear of embarrassing scenes, in social occasions backoff tendency." Shy people often think they have a problem, self assessment is low.
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afraid of losing face, the fear of public speaking, and afraid of snakes, afraid to open as normal. 55% of the people are afraid of this occasion, nearly 1/3 of the people give up publicly to express ideas and opportunities.
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however, there are always ways to overcome shyness, Walker stressed: "you can see the world with a new point of view, you can put aside the shyness of the old you."
"only I was so nervous! I can't do that, people will think I'm funny!" Negative thoughts like that and "fear of public speaking" people daily companion.
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