do you have this habit: when you care about a husband or boyfriend don't pay attention to you, you will get him to do more, more sacrifice yourself? In order to please him, pay a higher price. And you think, if you give him more love and care, he will automatically give you back the same thoughtful and caring. Have you ever found, whenever you give more, he does not pay attention to you, not only did not see you for what he did, but regarded you as behoove, even push you further? You ever feel for him, finally is bitter, tired and helpless, you feel angry, not fair. But this is all he make you do? Or are you willing to?
see a lot of women around me, from my family, counseling, case and the other women healers, have the habit of giving too much. I observed that often exceed their limits,<a href="http://www.paleenconstruction.com/images/paleenmanor/boots-tenpo-t-39.html">ブーツ 通販</a> http://www.paleenconstruction.com/images/paleenmanor/boots-tenpo-t-39.html, excessive to care about others woman, is the need to be concerned about. Because they are very eager to get recognition, love and a sense of value, particularly for others might look like a compassionate act, but they pay below for each action are affixed with a price, hope others return. If the other party has no feedback, these women will feel lost and empty, perhaps will double pay more, resulting in a vicious circle.
Li Anni: Tara was born in Taiwan, nine years old when her parents moved to USA, lived in eight countries, footprints all over the world more than 40 countries, is the international minority also accepted the western scientific training (Psychology), and a new generation of body mind therapy Eastern Orthodox spirituality and yoga, Qigong training more specialists. She has 12 years to lead the healing course experience, currently in Taiwan led to a series of physical and psychic growth course, "+ spirit" course, yoga teacher training class and mental healing. Has published "become complete and sexy woman" "spiritual intimacy" two books.
this is a lot of women unconscious patterns, is their survival mode, most of the time, are unconsciously to please each other, at the expense of their own. Women think of their male partner will also and himself, also pay more, but the man is actually very sensitive, he can feel you pay below there is a price to pay, just like on the surface you hand to give, but beneath a hidden hand in to ask. Man can feel your only scarcity, no sense of security, ask him and kept him immovable hands, so as to escape you.
if you are a woman, the wake up! You know why excessive sacrifice yourself? How do you want to change this kind of state, to transform itself from a helpless victim, converted into a love oneself,<a href="http://www.stjosephschoolfreeburg.org/images/christian-louboutin-shoes-outlet-51.html">ルブタン スニーカー</a> http://www.stjosephschoolfreeburg.org/images/christian-louboutin-shoes-outlet-51.html, have the strength, the spouse also love your woman?
example, Lisa very much hope that her husband can spontaneously help do housework, so she often stay up late, do the company's computer homework for her husband, but Lisa found that her husband did not appreciate her >
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